Walking into any baby store can feel overwhelming. There are so many products claiming to be "must-haves" that it's hard to know what you actually need versus what's just nice to have. The truth is, babies don't need nearly as much stuff as you might think, especially in the first few months.
This practical guide focuses on the essentials that will actually make your life easier and keep your baby safe and comfortable. We'll skip the gadgets you'll never use and focus on what really matters.
Absolute Must-Haves (Don't Leave the Hospital Without These)
Car Seat
This is legally required and non-negotiable. Choose an infant car seat (rear-facing only) or a convertible seat that can be used from birth. Have it professionally installed or checked before your due date. Many fire stations and baby stores offer free car seat inspections.
Safe Sleep Space
Your baby needs a safe place to sleep. Options include:
- Crib with a firm mattress
- Bassinet for the first few months
- Pack 'n play with bassinet attachment
Skip the bumpers, pillows, and blankets - babies should sleep in a bare crib for safety.
Feeding Essentials
For Breastfeeding
- 2-3 well-fitting nursing bras
- Nursing pads to prevent leaks
- Nipple cream
- Breast pump (if planning to pump or return to work)
- Burp cloths
For Formula Feeding
- Formula (start with ready-to-feed for convenience)
- 4-6 bottles
- Bottle brush for cleaning
- Burp cloths
Diaper Station Basics
- Newborn diapers (start with 2-3 packs)
- Size 1 diapers (babies grow quickly)
- Baby wipes (fragrance-free)
- Changing pad or designated changing area
- Diaper rash cream
- Diaper disposal system or regular trash can with good lid
Baby Clothing Essentials
Babies grow fast and have frequent outfit changes, so you need more clothes than you might think:
Newborn Size (0-3 months)
- 6-8 onesies (short and long sleeve mix)
- 4-6 sleepers/pajamas
- 2-3 pants
- 4-6 pairs of socks/booties
- 2-3 hats
- 2-3 swaddle blankets
Practical Tips
- Choose clothes with easy access for diaper changes
- Snap bottoms are easier than buttons
- Skip anything that goes over the head for newborns
- Have some 0-3 month sizes on hand - some babies skip newborn size
Bath Time Basics
- Baby bathtub or sink insert
- Gentle baby soap and shampoo
- Soft washcloths (2-3)
- Hooded towels (2-3)
- Baby lotion (fragrance-free)
Items You Can Wait On
These items might be nice to have later, but you don't need them right away:
- High chair (wait until baby can sit up)
- Walker or bouncer
- Tons of toys (newborns can't see well initially)
- Shoes (babies don't walk for months)
- Special baby laundry detergent (regular gentle detergent is fine)
Money-Saving Tips
Where to Splurge
- Car seat (never buy used)
- Crib mattress
- A few high-quality basics like onesies
Where to Save
- Clothes (babies outgrow them quickly)
- Toys (they won't need many at first)
- Blankets and burp cloths
- Bath items
Great Places for Deals
- Target and Walmart for basics
- Consignment shops for clothes
- Online marketplaces for gently used items
- Buy generic brands for diapers and wipes
Getting Ready Timeline
By 20 weeks
Start researching big items like car seats and cribs. This gives you time to read reviews and wait for sales.
By 32 weeks
Have your car seat, crib, and basic clothes ready. Start stocking up on diapers and other essentials.
By 36 weeks
Everything should be ready to go. Wash baby clothes, install the car seat, and set up the nursery.
Remember
You don't need everything perfect from day one. Babies mostly eat, sleep, and need diaper changes in the early weeks. Focus on the essentials first, and you can always buy other items as you discover what works for your family. Trust your instincts and don't let anyone pressure you into buying things you don't think you need.